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S.O.S: The Single Most Powerful Shortcut to Make Your List Love You (And Buy From You)

May 8th, 2008 by Kenneth Read more about Branding and Positioning, Creating Trust Online, Email Marketing

We opened an email swipe file account recently and I’ve been going in daily to observe the var­i­ous emails.

It’s inter­est­ing and eye-opening, almost like a “sur­vival of the fittest” exper­i­ment with the best emails ris­ing to the top and the ones not cut­ting the mark sink­ing to the bot­tom (sim­ply because I sub­scribed to 140 mar­ket­ing mail­ing lists).

All 140 mar­keters pro­claim them­selves the ‘best expert’, throw­ing all kinds of free infor­ma­tion… and yet there were still only 2 or 3 that really impressed me. Every sin­gle time these guys send me an email, I open it.

I’ve tried to reverse-engineer how and why these emails are so amaz­ingly effec­tive at cap­tur­ing my atten­tion, and even in some cases, my heart. I call this sin­gle most pow­er­ful con­cept SOS’: Set­ting Off Sparks.

Set­ting Off Sparks

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This finds its basis in the anal­ogy of a for­est fire, where all it takes is a spark to some dry wood to set alight 1000 acres.

In the same man­ner, sparks hap­pen in every­day life. It’s like the tip­ping point from being acquain­tances to becom­ing best friends. It’s the tip­ping point at which best friends sud­denly become lovers, because of that one spark.

This is our role as mar­keters: to cre­ate those moments for the sub­scribers’ list to become fol­low­ers, and ulti­mately, loyal customers.

How do you embed sparks in your emails?

How do you cre­ate the con­di­tions for ‘love’ to hap­pen? I’d say there are three dif­fer­ent ways to set off sparks.

1. Daz­zle them with revelations

What I mean is, don’t just give infor­ma­tion: give infor­ma­tion that will rock their socks off, shake their world, and change the way they do things. You can accom­plish this in 2 ways:

    1. Give out brand new infor­ma­tion that no-one else has. Fail­ing that (because there’s no such thing as brand new infor­ma­tion anyway),
    2. Trans­late old infor­ma­tion in new ways. Accord­ing to Joel Bauer (the best pub­lic speaker in the world accord­ing to some), when you name some­thing it becomes more real, more cred­i­ble. You could take some old con­cepts, string them together, put a label on them, and kaBOOM…it seems like a rev­e­la­tion and looks like some­thing new.

Why give revelations?

Because you can keep giv­ing out infor­ma­tion to your list and they won’t appre­ci­ate it because there’s a lot of free infor­ma­tion avail­able out there. But, when you hand them some­thing that sud­denly strikes them deep in the core and changes the way they do some­thing, they will remem­ber you.

And every sin­gle email you send there­after is an open door for you, every word you say has more weight, and every tech­nique you share has more value. That’s how it works.

For exam­ple, even I fol­low the peo­ple who’ve daz­zled me with rev­e­la­tions. Even if, after­wards, they don’t give me ‘good’ infor­ma­tion, I still fol­low what they’re up to because of that one daz­zling revelation.

That list includes Eben Pagan, for exam­ple, when he said to move the free line and make sure every­thing you give away is of value and can be monetized.

There’s another guy, Stu McClaren, a JV expert who spoke dur­ing the JV por­tion of Jeff Walker’s prod­uct launch work­shop. (I sub­scribed to 140 mail­ing lists so nat­u­rally I’m on his list, too.) I clicked through and his newslet­ters had a cou­ple of point­ers that daz­zled me.

I thought to myself, “Wow… I will never look at entre­pre­neur­ship the same way again.” Because of that, I now fol­low him and am a fan. Why? Because he daz­zled me. It works.

The thing is, you only need to ever daz­zle them once and they’ll fol­low you. BUT, of course, at the same time you always need to remem­ber that it’s a num­bers game. You need to keep giv­ing out as much new infor­ma­tion as pos­si­ble because some of it will hit, and some of it won’t. But it’s worth it because once that one idea hits, they’re yours.

Like Vic­tor Hugo said, there’s noth­ing more pow­er­ful than an idea whose time has come.

2. Touch them with stories

Not just any sto­ries, but your stories.

Touch them with your auto­bi­o­graph­i­cal sketches, your snap­shots of your­self. Why? Because that story will cre­ate iden­ti­fi­ca­tion and empa­thy between you and your prospects.

For exam­ple, again Stu McClaren cap­tured my atten­tion because of his story about his fiance and the trou­ble they had get­ting money for their wed­ding, and that was some­thing I could iden­tify with because, you know, wed­dings are expen­sive these days.

There is sud­denly a moment of empa­thy with that guru or with that per­son, and you start fol­low­ing his story. Now, it’s not so much about the rev­e­la­tions he can give you any­more as much as it is about who he is, to you.

3. Tease them with Cliffhangers

There’s a famous say­ing in mar­ket­ing that ‘curios­ity killed the cat but made the mar­keter rich’. As humans, we are always curi­ous to dis­cover new tech­niques and  strate­gies, and new ways of doing things.

Mark Joyner describes this as the Zeigar­nik effect in his book, Mind Con­trol Mar­ket­ing, where the use of the Zeigar­nik effect keeps peo­ple ‘glued in’ to iStock_000001743696Small dis­cover what’s going to hap­pen next. It basi­cally says that all human beings have prob­lems with unfin­ished stories.

Even if they watch a ter­ri­ble movie, if they’re three-quarters of the way in, they’ll want to fin­ish that movie, they will not walk out of that theater.

Why? Because unfin­ished sto­ries are tor­tur­ous to your mind because they cause such a dis­rup­tion to your thoughts.

So, one of the keys to build­ing ado­ra­tion is to tor­ture them. You can achieve this by plac­ing a cliffhanger in the sub­ject line or body copy, e.g. “This involves some­thing called the BK effect…find out in the next seg­ment what it is!”

Even CNN does this, by the way. They give you a use­less trivia ques­tion, and then you stay through the com­mer­cial so that you can find out what the answer is.

The most impor­tant thing about this point, though, is this: your answer had bet­ter be sat­is­fy­ing! Don’t throw some­thing out and build to an anti-climax. If you can give an answer that will blow their minds some­what, you have a friend for life –a friend who’ll lis­ten to you and when you say ‘open your wal­let’, they will.

I always try to say ‘old stuff’ in a new way, because some­times it’s the only way to be heard in a sea of com­peti­tors. In your mar­ket, how can you begin to trans­late your infor­ma­tion into daz­zling rev­e­la­tions? If you are inspired specif­i­cally by the ideas I’ve shared, let me know by post­ing a com­ment or just say­ing hi.

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Kenneth Kenneth Yu is a tormented artist, but he was determined not to be a starving one. This is the primary reason why this D&AD award-winning advertising creative has plunged into the world of Internet entrepreneurship, and the rest -- as they say -- is history. Straddling both the creative and business realm, Kenneth combines bullet-fast ideation and his vast experience working with the big brands to alchemize marketing gold as the Head Copywriter and Marketing Strategist in MindValley. He shares more out-of-the-box marketing and copywriting tips (plus cool irreverent stuff) on his Twitter

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11 Responses to “S.O.S: The Single Most Powerful Shortcut to Make Your List Love You (And Buy From You)”

  1. 7 Quick n’ Easy Steps to Create Videos That Impress

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  2. Brian

    Eben Pagan is bril­liant at this… he uses the word “dis­cov­ered” repeat­edly in his com­mu­ni­ca­tions, because it gives an aura of rev­e­la­tion and proof at the same time.

    –Brian

  3. Richard Muir

    Hey Ken­neth,

    Great post, I am pressed for time and really picky with what I read today regard­ing mar­ket­ing and that post is a real win­ner with some great information.

    Thanks

    Rich

  4. Golfspy X

    Another great post! It seems like I am star­ring all your stuff…my google reader is bright with all your stars.

  5. Catherine Osthaus

    Hi Ken­neth,
    I realy appre­ci­ate this won­der­ful info. Lets just say that I have become a rav­ing fan of your work!

    Cather­ine Osthaus

  6. sam

    hi, inter­est­ing read thanks.

  7. Tony

    Awe­some info Ken­neth. Really appre­ci­ate these tips. Reit­er­ate old info, never gets old…

  8. Dave

    Very inter­est­ing post. The strat­egy to torment(in a good way) your readers/customers is inter­est­ing! :)

    @realwat

  9. Maria Simone

    This is great Ken­neth — short and sweet and very impact­ful. Thanks for the tips.

  10. Bobby Fogg

    Great con­tent bro!

  11. John Kremer

    Great sto­ries always sell. Tell a story, make a friend. Every great book is the same way. If the book has good sto­ries, it sells. If not, it doesn’t.

    @johnkremer

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